It turns out that life does not conveniently open up windows of time for contemplation and writing, so I’m choosing to say “wait” to a few things right now (and to give Zoe an iPad) so I can sit down and just type for a while. It’s good for the soul!
Here’s a little recap of our summer!
We kicked off summer with a trip to Disney on Ice, also known as the ultimate in potty training rewards (go Zoe)! Little Riley got to tag along and was a surprise superfan.
Can you handle the cuteness? I can’t.
Every summer, David always goes on a few week-long trips with youth from church. This means I stay home with the girls and have fun/survive. During one of his trips this summer, the girls and I all got sick (it turned out that I had shingles, although I didn’t realize it until a few days later). We borrowed “Mary Poppins” from a neighbor and spent the weekend watching it over and over again. It was quite the emotional journey:
Mary Poppins, viewing 1: This movie is way weirder than I remembered.
Mary Poppins, viewing 2: This movie is way more creative and groundbreaking than I realized.
Mary Poppins, viewing 3: Time with my children is passing by faster than I realize…soon they’ll be grown and all I’ll have to show for it are hours spent working at a bank…am I seizing every moment or grinding at that grindstone?!! (Begin softly crying, then remember that I don’t work at a bank and curse Mary Poppins and my lack of sleep).
It was a gem of a weekend.
Every summer, we go on at least one trip solely designed to provide sanctuary from the burning inferno that is this state. This year, we went to Seattle and had a rip-roaring good time hiking almost every day…renting a rowboat and going out on Lake Washington…going to a family wedding with a ceremony that perfectly reflected the couple (congratulations again, guys…)!!drinking lots of coffee, seeing some Seattle sights, and meeting up with my college girlfriends and a precious new baby who has been added to our extended friend-family.
While on this trip, we also learned something exciting: OUR KIDS ARE ACTUALLY FUN ON VACATIONS RIGHT NOW. They can handle long flights, they can be somewhat flexible about naps, they eat real food and don’t require planning for purees or bottles, one is potty-trained with few accidents, and they can handle time changes without being completely miserable! This realization has set off a flurry of vacation dreaming and scheming for next summer. We’ve made it through the darkest time!!
This summer, I taught my “accelerated format” course for the second summer in a row, which meant that I had ten fast and furious weeks of grading, video recording, and answering student e-mails…plus all of my other work. This may NOT be an every summer thing.
This summer, I opened our toilet seat and found this monstrosity sitting in the bowl:This picture was taken AFTER 5 minutes of screaming, hitting the frog with a spatula, and general mayhem as we tried to trap and release this ridiculous amphibian as he hopped all over our bathroom.
I’m not sure my children (who were placed in a crib for safekeeping) will ever forget this incident. I share it with you in the hope that you can think of this story during a depressing day and realize: it could always be worse. I could have a frog in my toilet.
This summer, Riley turned two! We celebrated with a “Frozen in Summer” party with three of Riley’s buds, three blow-up pools, popsicles, and pizza. Words can’t express my gratitude for the gift of Riley. Our family would be incomplete without her!
This summer, David and I also celebrated our 8th anniversary. In honor of the occasion, we revisited the spot where we got engaged (Kerry Park in Seattle). Our children were thrilled by this trip down memory lane.This summer, the girls took swim lessons twice a week. Zoe has learned to actually swim, and Riley has learned that she cannot swim by herself. Valuable lessons all around! We have switched to private lessons to amp up their progress and will continue through October. I am so proud of both of them.
This summer, Zoe stopped napping. Get out your violins, people—not because she is growing up and I’m emotional about it, but because my midday 1.5 hours per day of work/personal time are over and I’m emotional about THAT. Naptime was a joy. “Quiet” time…well, don’t get me started.
(Unrelated photo I just thought was too cute not to share. A related photo would have been me chugging coffee with a crazed look in my eyes, which I’m sure you can imagine without a photo.)
This month, David’s parents moved here. They now live 6 blocks away…and are watching the girls for me every Wednesday afternoon! We are all excited about this!🙂
Last weekend, I took my first kid-free trip (beyond my grandpa’s funeral) and went to my cousin’s wedding in California. I had such a blast hiking, drinking delicious wine and coffee, eating some of the most delicious food imaginable, watching my cousin begin his family, and hanging out with family. I was surprised to learn that I am actually still a person when I get some time and space away from my children, AND I’m able to slip into that person very quickly, AND it’s fun to be that person. To be honest, I haven’t been feeling a lot of ownership of my life these days, so realizing that I’m still there was such a good growth experience for me.That sentence probably sounds really melodramatic unless you have also had two children who are very close in age, or are a fourteen year old girl, in which case you feel me.
If you CAN relate, you will understand my mixed emotions at this photo: This photo was taken at Meet the Teacher day last week. My girls just started preschool!
I’ll talk more about this—and work/life balance & what’s ahead for this fall—in my next post!